I grew up without a father.Well，sort of，my parents divorced in the 1960s when I was a small child，and I stayed with my mother in Los Angeles.My father remarried and moved to a small suburb of Atlanta.For one month out of the year in the summer，I would fly back and spend time with my dad，so I had a father at times.
Further，I had a series of stepfathers who ranged from wonderful guys to alcoholics to dangerous individuals.Having lived through such experiences，I find it amusing when people say that children really need a father in the home.Well，if he is a good father and a good man，then I agree completely.If he is not，then the child might actually be better off without him.We don't just need fathers-we need good fathers.
I feel it fair to say I ended up a very successful adult，at least that's what people tell me.So how did I do it？I think it started with me having a bit of a chip on my shoulder.Normally this is not a good thing，but in my case it was rocket fuel for achievement.Not having a father in my life gave me something to prove，and it motivated me in an "I'll show you" way.
I also tried very hard，even as a little boy to be self-sufficient.And that means I did not rely upon my parents except to the extent necessary.This kind of independence I believe is highly missed in this age of highly managed children with "helicopter" parents hovering（盤旋）above them constantly.
I also think I never wanted not having a father in my life to be an excuse for myself.We make and allow excuses constantly these days，but I just never felt that feeling sorry for myself was going to get me anywhere.I think if children can adopt such mindsets early in their lives it can be helpful.
（1）According to the first two paragraphs，the author thinks CC.
A．his father is a bad one
B．nobody needs a father
C．children need a good father
D．children really need a father
（2）How did the author end up a very successful adult？ DD
A．He was very intelligent.
B．He made excuse for himself.
C．He was motivated by a father.
D．He was very independent and tried very hard.
（3）What does the underlined word "self-sufficient" mean in Paragraph 4？ AA
A．Able to support myself.
B．Able to dress myself very quickly.
C．Able to play by myself.
D．Able to work on my own.
（4）How can we describe the author from the passage？ CC
A．Friendly，clever and warm-hearted.
B．Clever，determined and independent.
C．Motivated，hard-working and independent.
D．Motivated，hard-working and warm-hearted.
【考點(diǎn)】生命的意義與價(jià)值．
【答案】C；D；A；C
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